Being frugal doesn’t mean you are a miser afraid of spending
any money. Frugal to my mind means that you use your wealth and resources deliberately.
Maybe it is just the accountant in me and I can’t get rid of the debit/credit
mindset.
When you use an asset it either can be for another asset, an
expense or a future liability. I don’t know about you but I want to feel like I
am getting value for the money I use,
not feeling like I just flushed it down the toilet.
My husband and I made the decision for me to work at home
raising our kids instead of in an office bringing home a paycheck. He works
hard to provide for our family and I work just as hard to respect that and use
our money in the most prudent way. That
isn’t to say that our purchases are strictly practical, that would suck the fun
out of life (and that’s when you turn into a miser).
No, what that means is that I try to use our money as
economically as possible. For instance, if I want to take my kids to a museum I
will look and see if they have any free days or discounts. Many times they do
and it just takes a little looking. So in this instance if I found out they do
offer a free day I would wait and go then. I still will be able to do what I
want and provide a fun, educational experience for my kids. The same experience
they would’ve had if I had paid full price, but instead I would have saved at
least $30 which I can now have available for something else. We can still have
nice things. We just have to choose which of those we want to set as a
priority.
There is a quote by Gandhi I came across recently that I
loved:
“There is enough on
Earth for everybody's need, but not enough for everybody's greed.”
I feel like that can apply individually to our lives as
well. There is enough for your needs. Enough even your wants (greed). But you
have to work within your financial constraints.
We might not all be able to take the most lavish and extravagant
vacations without a second thought about where the money is coming from but
there is probably a way to have meaningful, amazing travel experiences in
another way. And this doesn’t just relate to travel. This idea can apply to
every other facet of life.
I believe that we can have all the experiences we want in
life if we just look for a way to make it happen. When you live providently or
frugally, you feel like you have more. Not just for yourself but for others
also. When we save in so many little ways it makes it easier to give in big
ways. Life is abundant, there are so many opportunities out there and I plan to
make the most of them. If this is something you resonate with, then follow
along as I share my adventures and my frugal tips that make them possible.
If you have saved $1000 in an emergency fund and paid off all your debt except for your house using the debt snowball, then you are ready to move onto Dave Ramsey's Baby Step 3.
This babystep is fairly straight forward. You want to pile up cash for 3-6 months worth of expenses. Remember, this is an emergency fund so you only need to count your necessary expenses. Utilities, Food, Mortgage etc. You probably wouldn't be worried about paying for cable if you were in a tight enough situation that you were using this fund.
Keep this money were it is liquid or very accessible. That means a money market or bank accounts. Do not use this money for investing. This money needs to be there when you need it.
There are a few factors to consider when deciding whether to do save 6 months of expenses instead of 3.
- Are you self-employed? (lean towards 6 months)
- Is your income irregular? (lean towards 6 months)
- How is the current job market? Right now with unemployment so high I would rather 6 months of expenses covered in case of job loss.
- How is the economy in general? Does it seem stable? ie inflation vs. deflation, short food supply
- What are some of the political plans being talked about? ie raising taxes, stimulus plans
For me, I'm more comfortable having cash for 6 months of expenses saved up, but anything is better than nothing.
How are you feeling about the outlook of the economy right now? How many months are you going to aim for?
How many times have we been counseled to have a "rainy day fund'? How many of us have done it? An emergency fund is just that. For emergencies. Unplanned expenses come up all the time. It doesn't have to be a huge event like losing your job but it can be. Most likely it's something smaller but big enough to not fit into your planned budget.
I think this is one thing that is so easy to put off but also one of the easiest things to complete once you get started. It's not overwhelming and time intensive like saving and planning for retirement or paying off your house.
Yesterday while I was driving, I pulled up to a stop light and my power steering went out. Just like that, no warning whatsoever. So today my car is in the shop getting fixed and you can bet that there is going to be a hefty bill to come back with it. Now, I don't like spending money or seeing my savings account go down but I can't tell you how nice it is to not have to worry about where this money is coming from. I can't imagine the stress that I would be feeling if my husband and I were living paycheck to paycheck and didn't have an emergency fund in place.
In the book
Financial Peace Revisited
, Dave Ramsey lists 7 baby-steps to follow in order to gain financial peace. The first baby-step is to build an emergency fund of 1000 dollars. That may sound stressful but you would be surprised at how quickly that will add up when you save a little here and a little there. And seeing your account balance go up will start to motivate you even further to be creative in finding ways to save more and more.
Let this be the year we control our finances! Good luck building or replenishing your emergency fund as you need it.
I've listed some financial resources below but what are some creative ways you've found to save when you needed to build up a cash reserve?
Resources:
This is an awesome and short read about family finances. If you haven't read it yet, you should. You can get a pamphlet or download it for free
here.
I love this
book
and can't say enough good about
it. Dave Ramsey rocks!
He's lived through it all and walks you through everything you can think of on the road to financial peace. Whether it's piles of debt, dealing with creditors or bankruptcy or just getting a plan, he has solutions for them all. Check it out from your local library if you need to. His
website has some great tips and information too.
With Thanksgiving and the Christmas Season approaching I am reminded constantly of all that I have to be thankful for.
I am thankful for my wonderful husband and all he does to make my life easier. I'm thankful for my cute daughter and how much happiness she brings to my life and the fact that I can stay at home with her. I am pregnant again and in good health. My husband has a good job which is something to be very thankful for during these scary economic times. We are in the process of buying a house. In short, I have a lot to be thankful for. Part of being thankful is having and showing gratitude to the person who is responsible for all of my blessings. In the scriptures, God asks us to give 10 percent of our income to the Church to help the poor, widows and furthering His work on the earth. I know that all good things come from God and as a way to thank Him for all he has done for me and my family we pay tithing.
I consider giving tithes to be the first rule of good finances. When setting up a budget it is very easy to become overwhelmed by the amount of things claiming a piece of the pie and think that there isn't money left for tithing. The Bible mentions giving your 'first fruits' over 20 times. So by making tithing the first line on our budget helps remind us to keep God first in our lives and lets us acknowledge him for all that he has given us. A quote I love from Dave Ramsey is "If you cannot live off 90% of your income, then you cannot live off 100%. It does not require a miracle for you to get through the month. I think that if you sit down and look at your budget, you will see that you can make it while giving at least 10%."
Who We Are is Reflected in How We Use Our Money
God doesn't need our tithing. The law of tithing is more for our benefit and what we can learn from giving willingly. Dave Ramsey also said that "giving reminds us that the world does not revolve around us and that no matter what our financial status is, someone is in a much worse situation."
In chapter 4 of Financial Peace Revisited
, Dave Ramsey speaks to the spiritual aspects of money saying "Personal Finance is who you are. The personal, philosophical, and emotional problems and strengths that you have will be reflected in your use of money. If you are very disciplined, you can be a good saver of money. If you are very selfish or self-centered, you will surround yourself with expensive toys that you cannot afford." Giving teaches us how to be unselfish people. "Unselfish people make better husbands, wives, friends, relatives, employees, and employers. God is trying to teach us how to prosper over time."
I think this is what we are all aiming for in ourselves and for our children. We want to encourage them to develop good habits and traits and to be good people. When we give, we learn to be selfless and aware of other people. When we manage our money responsibly, we learn self-confidence and independence.
God makes this promise to us about paying our tithing in the Old Testament.
Malachi 3:10 (King James Version)
Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.
Your blessings may not always come in the form of a bigger income and more wealth. It can come in the form of your money being able to stretch farther. Like getting really good deals on things that you need. Your family not being sick as much as usual, thereby reducing medical bills, or your car not breaking down. Or just learning the ability to manage your money so that you know how to provide for what you need.
I hope all of us will be able to see and appreciate all that we have been blessed with as we celebrate Thanksgiving this week.
Have you heard of Dave Ramsey? I love him. He had a real estate portfolio worth $4 million by the age of 26 but ended up losing it all by age 30. He’s since rebuilt his financial life, and teaches thous
ands of people how to successfully manage their personal finances on his radio talk show The Dave Ramsey Show.
My father-in-law gave all the girls in our family Financial Peace
for Mother's Day. In his book, Dave outlines 7 "baby steps" to achieving financial peace. My favorite baby step is #2 The Debt Snowball. This is a great plan to help you visualize what you need and can do to get out of debt and do it quick. It's also called The Debt Elimination Calendar and the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has a great example in their pamphlet called
One for the Money which my husband and I read together before we got married. It is an awesome free resource and full of good advice. You can download it
here.
The Debt Snowball will help you reduce and eliminate your debt fast by applying the same amount of money each month to your debts even after some of them start getting paid off. To illustrate, list the names of the months down the left side of a columned paper. (I would recommend creating your Debt Snowball table in an Excel spreadsheet.) On the top of the next column, type the name of your debt with the smallest balance and the monthly payment underneath it on successive rows until it would be paid off. Next continue organizing your debts and their payments according to the smallest balance to the highest. Dave says we should start by paying off the one with the smallest balance and not necessarily the highest interest rate first because we will start to see results faster and want to keep with it.
Once your second debt payment gets to the payoff line of your first debt, stop. On the next line below the 2nd payment combine what you were paying towards your 1st debt to the payment of your second and that is your new monthly payment amount for debt #2. Continue with the following debts until they are all repaid. See example below.
| The Debt Elimination Calendar | |
| Credit Card 1 | Credit Card 2 | Credit Card 3 |
| March | 50 | 75 | 100 |
| April | 50 | 75 | 100 |
| May | 50 | 75 | 100 |
| June |
| 125 | 100 |
| July |
| 125 | 100 |
| August |
|
| 225 |
| September |
|
| 225 |
| Debt Free | | | |
You can see that you keep paying the same amount of money towards your debts month after month and that they start to get paid down quicker. I think a problem a lot of people run into is that they will pay off one debt and say to themselves "oh, now that I don't have that debt, I have X amount of extra money to spend a month" and they just spend it one unnecessary things instead of attacking the next debt with it.
I also love the Debt Snowball because it gives you a clear picture to see that it's possible to get out of debt. It is so easy to get hopeless and feel like you will never see the end of the tunnel but with the Debt Snowball you know exactly how long it will take.
This is such an easy thing people can do to help themselves learn to manage their money. I think the key word here is manage. Do you manage your money or does it manage you? This is the peace that Dave is talking about. I will be posting more tips and strategies to help you get control of your finances in the future. If there are any topics in particular that you're interested in let me know.